Find a release and strength in a spiritual life, too, Weary Wife. My friend’s child’s behaviour. its got to happen. (26 Posts) Add message | Report. Continued. Now it’s a preteen and no body wants it. A stubborn child meets a determined rule. I want to lay in my own funk and NOT feel guilty about it. I’m new to mumsnet and this is my first thread. I don’t even know how to begin to make a change. it's destorying me. I don’t think I can clean or fix another meal or go to the grocery store or wash dishes or sweep up dog hair one more single time. Anna1212 08/04/2019. My child’s father however is strong. It’s a secret that many parents of acting-out kids share but rarely confess to anyone. Eventually the thread turned toward people trying to send gift cards to the OP. Oh we have been there and it SUCKS!!! I imagine I am a boxer about to enter the ring. I have a nine yr old and I love her and being a mother, but I hate being a mom when it’s not going well I’ve learned. Hi Sam my name is Ella and i am COMPLETELY FED UP with quarentine. You sound just like me! In addition, it just eliminates one more thing that can distract me from being able to focus on taking care of my kids. I'm a single parent and my children still see their father who I split up with about 1 year ago. And he won’t go for a nap even though hes shattered and he peed himself and he doesn’t want clean pants on and he wants the blanket but he doesn’t want it and he doesn’t want the TV on so turns it off but wants to watch Mulan and hes screaming crying because the DAY ENDS IN A Y! I can't take care of my fish anymore. Other parents may worry that they’ll be less able to provide adequate care as they age and develop disabilities of their own. I don't know how many times I had to chase him out of the garbage yesterday, he seems to think it's his personal eating bowl. And by doing so, you are setting yourself up to be frustrated. i don't know what to do. I volunteer and give to the needy all the time. If so, does it offer marriage counseling or daycare? People like you, ‘holier than thou’, are what’s wrong with this country. Your spouse isn't able obviously to be a husband to you or a father to the children. So please PLEASE get that out of your head. I asked around, posted pictures on FB, and had several family members ask friends but in this economy no one wants to add a new pet to their situation. 13 posts, 0 answered Oldest first ... My father is partially disabled and my mum just recently broke her hip and now I have to take care of both while going through the worst pain I can think any person can feel. The Salvation Army provides emergency assistance and support to families. I raised my kids and took care of my mom on hospice until she passed. Any chance you can hire a local teenager to help her with her homework or check with her school to see if there is some after school program that can help her? 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